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My favorite poem: Steve Rayburn's selection

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Sometimes the reasons for cherishing a poem owe more to childhood experiences than anything else

By Steve Rayburn
English teacher
Posted Friday, April 7, 2006, The OG, features

[Note: In honor of National Poetry Month, The Online Gargoyle asked each of Uni's English teachers to pick a favorite poem. We were curious: What does this poem mean to you? Why does it move you? How does it move you? What's the history of your relationship with the poem? Suzanne Linder started us off Wednesday with her selection. Today, Steve Rayburn, who teaches junior and subfreshman English, discusses his choice. Contact us here or here to tell us about your own favorite poem.]

This is an easy one for me. I love a great many poems, but when asked my favorite, I always go with Eugene Field's “Little Boy Blue.”

Field wrote children's poems, so this one has no great “literary” merit. My attachment to it is solely sentimental. This was the first poem I ever learned “by heart,” and I learned it from a favorite great-aunt, who was an English teacher.

I often stayed at her house for a week in the summer — a city boy out in the country. I would fish, roam the fields and woods, and read books my aunt handed me. As she prepared lunch one day, she taught me this poem, one line at a time. I was around 10. (She didn't have indoor plumbing until
around then, so I never stayed overnight until she got a toilet in the house!)

I can still recite it by heart, and I still choke up at the end, just as I have done for years — partly because of the content of the poem, yes, but more because of the content of my memories of a beloved aunt who instilled in me a passion for poetry.

Perhaps I should add that my favorite poem has nothing to do with sheep in meadows or cows in corn, but rather a young boy who puts his toys away then dies in his sleep. (HIGHLY sentimental!) My 10th-grade English teacher maintained he didn't die but simply grew up — the only mistake I think she
ever made!

“Little Boy Blue”

The little toy dog is covered with dust,
But sturdy and stanch he stands;
And the little toy soldier is red with rust,
And his musket moulds in his hands.
Time was when the little toy dog was new,
And the soldier was passing fair;
And that was the time when our Little Boy Blue
Kissed them and put them there.

“Now, don't you go till I come,” he said,
“And don't you make any noise!”
So, toddling off to his trundle-bed,
He dreamt of the pretty toys;
And, as he was dreaming, an angel song
Awakened our Little Boy Blue —
Oh! the years are many, the years are long,
But the little toy friends are true!

Ay, faithful to Little Boy Blue they stand,
Each in the same old place —
Awaiting the touch of a little hand,
The smile of a little face;
And they wonder, as waiting the long years through
In the dust of that little chair,
What has become of our Little Boy Blue,
Since he kissed them and put them there.

Poem: “Little Boy Blue,” by Eugene Field (1850-1895)

Comments

I agree with you. I think he died in his sleep.

I, too, memorized this poem in school and was touched by it's poignancy. I have a friend who lost her son to a brain tumor and it also touches her in a special way. I don't think that the child in the poem died in his sleep, but he has grown and moved on and, and sadly, the time of his playing with toys has passed. I think it speaks to the fleeting time of childhood, and the bittersweet combination of fond memory and the reality of not being able to stay at that point in life. Either way one sees the poem provokes a very emotional response. The beauty of poetry is that it can have several interpretations and neither is "wrong."

Well, as I read back over the poem more carefully, and I know I have read it many times, I realize that the "angel song" part of the poem probably does mean he died. I never remembered thinking of the poem that way, but,it has been many years. Perhaps that is what happened. I stand corrected, but I still see either way of interpretation meaningful. (I just had my coffee, so I guess I woke up!)

I'm back again. On the site www.mamalisa.com/field/, a comment was made that it was the son of Eugene Field who died(the subject of "Little Boy Blue") which makes the poem even more heart-wrenching.

I do also love this sensible poem written by Eugene Field about his son's toys and how each of the items are symbolized, it is like it has a touch of magic.

I'm touched to think that so many people remember this poem as fondly as I do. It was also the first poem I learned by heart, and may have been formative in my subsequent choice to become a teacher of English. It's not just the death of the little boy which moves me but the uncomprehending and enduring loyalty of his toys. I think it's their silent and inarticulable grief that i find so poignant.

I am 60 years old this month. Two nights ago, I woke up thinking about this poem that I memorized in elementary school. I don't know why it popped back in my head but it certainly was a very touching poem.

I'm still thinking about this poem days after it popped into my mind as it did with Cinda. My overriding sense of its sadness is still with the silent grief of the toys, and I think part of the power of this poem lies in the way it speaks to our fear of abandonment. It's the inability of the dog and the soldier to make sense of what has happened to the little boy that lies at the heart of its pervading sadness. It's a theme echoed in "Puff the Magic Dragon", although for Puff, it's clear that the abandonment has been caused by Jackie growing up, not dying (though the experience of being left bereft is no different).

I memorized Little Boy Blue when I was in college. It is my favorite poem. I was speaking with my 15 year old son yesterday and told him that I wanted to read to him my favorite poem. Before I could turn to the page he revealed to me that he knew what it was - and he did. When I questioned my husband if he knew what my favorite poem was he did not remember. When I read the poem over again yesterday and today I almost cried - even though I have quoted it and read it so many times it still touches me deeply. The death of the little boy and the love and devotion felt by all is so touching to me.

I am visiting this website every couple of days at present - and I'm fascinated by just how many people, like me, are deeply touched by this poem, and just how many of us are now adding our thoughts to this page: observations about both the poem itself and our first associations with it. So, over a century after it was written, and some forty to fifty years after many of us first encountered it, here we are today, sharing our thoughts and feelings about it. The synchronicity of these shared responses is something which I find as moving, in a way, as the poem itself....

This will be my last comment - occasioned by the fact that I've only just realised that the University High School of this website is NOT the school of the same name in my home town, Melbourne, Australia, from where I'm writing this. (explains why the times of my log ins are so out of sycnh...) So, the fact that the connection expressed through this poem spans not just time but distance adds, for me, to its universality... Bless you, all of you who read, love and record your response to Eugene Field's small masterpiece....

I learnt this poem some sixty years ago at a time when schools were closed due to an epidemic which was claiming many children. It came to me again during the night last night and I knew i had a couple of words wrong. Google provided me with the answers and the amazing fact that so many people around the world know the poem, are revisiting it, and are still getting emotional over it.

I learned this poem 69 or 70 years ago and it is one I can still recite. At the time I learned it, I was told that he was called Little Boy Blue because he had a heart condition that caused his lips and fingernails to have a blueish tinge and that he died in his sleep.

Little Boy Blue

I, too, awakened in the middle of the night with this beautiful, old poem running through my mind. I memorized it as a child--40-plus years ago, and it has always been precious to me, because of its tender subject, of course, but also because it makes me think of my mother, who was the first to read it to me. And now, tonight, it comes back to me with even greater tenderness because my own "Little Boy Blue, " my precious son, passed away two months ago today, and in these gentle words, penned a century ago, my mother, my son and I come together tonight.

Little Boy Blue

It was my grandmother who told me that poem 30 years ago. She came from Cork Ireland and settled in Nottingham, England. She told told the poem with so much beauty, that the way I thought at the time, my toys loved me, and they loved me so much too. Now I'm older, I think little boy blue is in heaven with my beloved granny. Making sure he puts them away at night. Then playing with them all day long. I miss them both so much......

Little Boy Blue

One of the very first poems I learned outside of nursery rhymes,. My grandfather, a writer taught it to me as a very young girl and perhaps this poem was what caused me to love writing and literature. Puff the Magic Dragon had a similar message as did Frost's Stopping By The Woods One Snowy Evening. In the case of O'Neil, he did, in fact, write this about the son he lost at a young age and he never quite recovered; who does when one buries his child? A visit to the Eugene O'Neil Home in St. Louis is a great take. Beautiful poem, beautigful message some 48 years later, I remember sitting on my grandfather's lap as he read it to me.

I never knew Little Boy Blue

I never knew Little Boy Blue as a poem. It was sung to me by my father all through my childhood. He died last May and to keep his memory and tradition I sing it to my son. I have the music pages in front of me and Ethelbert Nevin is the composer. My sisters and I have fond memories of this song.

Little Boy Blue

Every year or so I pull out a little paperback from my bookshelf titled "One Hundred and One Famous Poems". "Little Boy Blue" is one of those poems, and it's always the first one I re-read.

I just did a little searching on Eugene Field's biography. Apparently he and his wife had eight children altogether. Two died in infancy, and another died while just a small boy. He must have shed many tears while writing this poem, and everyone who's read it probably has as well.

Little Boy Blue

I love this poem as my Grandmother and Mother both used to recite it to me it evokes very happy childhood memories, even though as quite a young child I realised the poignancy of the poem. I too have recited it to my son but I had never heard the last verse until I read it on your website - many thanks. It always seemed to me a rather odd poem to tell to a child, but I think children are very well able to understand the poem and cope with it's sadness. It always gave me comfort as a child to think of Little Boy Blue going to play with the angels. In fact, I always felt sorry for the toys.

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