Epiphanies are rare, but these past eight days in the Dominican Republic have opened our eyes quickly and dramatically. We have many, many stories to tell you. Unfortunately, time is short and our access to computer terminals, extremely limited. Instead of composing a long narrative now, I want to pass along novelist Julia Alvarez’s words from the DREAM Project’s 2006 Newsletter that Director Sarah Ross gave me. We have already witnessed some of the things described in the “clapping song.” We have been truly moved, and I think you will be, too.
A LETTER FROM HONORARY CHAIR, JULIA ALVAREZ
“Hope, History and Rhyming for the DREAMers and DOers. Two Poems to Inspire You”
I recall the first time I realized we needed to start a school at Alta Gracia, our sustainable farm up in the mountains of the Domincan Republic, near the village of Los Dajaos. I was upstairs in our little casita writing away in my journal when I overhead Miguelina and her friend, Anamery, both six years old, playing a clapping game downstairs and reciting this rhyme:
Mariquita, Mariquita
Mariquita, you abuser,
The man I like,
I´ll steal him from his wife.
I´ll steal him, I´ll steal him,
I´ll steal him, that´s the truth,
and then she´ll have to be
my servant and my cook.
I was born at one o´clock,
at two they baptized me,
at three I learned of love,
at four they married me,
at five I had a child,
by six that child was dead,
we buried him at seven,
I got divorced at eight,
at nine I had cancer,
the operation was at ten,
at eleven final prayers,
at twelve o´clock, the end.
When my husband gets home
I don´t know what I´ll say,
you better take your shoes off
and wash off your dirty smell.
I hurried to the window to be sure that the reciters of this shocking rhyme were indeed two little girls who had not yet reached what the Catholic Church, the predominant religion in the country, calls the age of reason, seven years old. Miguelina and Anamery chanted away merrily, but given their mothers’ and grandmothers’ lives, I was sure that these two precious little girls were unwittingly describing what lay ahead of them as females and as the poor in a third world country.
All of what they recited shocked me, the fact that the only avenue for female ambition lay in deposing another luckier woman who had a husband. The fact that the new wife would in turn abuse the former wife, making her a servant and a cook. As for the husband, what was there to say to him. Go wash yourself, you smell bad. This was obviously not a love match. But the middle verse was the real heartbreaker. The clock of these two little girls’ lives struck one grim hour after another ….
When I heard Miguelina and Anamery chanting their rhyme, I knew that in addition to taking care of the land, we had to address the problem of education and illiteracy. There had to be a better clock of opportunities for Miguelina and Anamery and all the children in the community. And so was born the idea of starting a school on the farm, named after the national Virgencita de la Alta Gracia. Alta Gracia … high grace. A fitting name for a place high up in the Cordillera Central. A place from which much grace will flow.
BACK TO ME
Others are waiting impatiently to use this terminal, so I will send more later.
Best,
Adele Suslick, Lead Teacher
University Laboratory High School
Urbana, IL