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Too cool for mainstream

This past summer, all but a couple of my friends were always off in foreign countries or playing basketball or doing other silly things that left me pretty darn bored. So my friend Leslie Hodges and I spent most of the summer going to the movies.

I'm pretty sure that over those two-and-a-half months, I saw more movies than I usually see within an entire year. Mostly, they were all good in my opinion. Very few of them, however, got very good reviews at all.

I really don't think I have a terrible taste in movies. I actually think I have a pretty good taste in movies. So why do I seem to be the only one who likes them?

I use my iPod a lot, and when I have it out, it tends to get borrowed by other people in the room. It's quickly given back, because they look through my music and discover that all of my music is "crappy."

The thing is, most of my favorite movies and music are all mainstream. I don't see random indie films or listen to many obscure bands. For most of the artists on my iPod, I only have one song. That's because it's the one song by them that's become popular. Most of the movies I like are the big, flashy, cheesy movies that you see previews for everywhere, and that make tons of money at the box office.

I think that liking popular stuff has become unpopular. People feel that to be cool and popular, they have to be different, and not like what everyone else likes. They think that they have to go against the flow in order to … go with the flow.

It's almost as if they make stuff popular, then once other people start to like it, they decide they can't like it anymore, so they have to find something else to like.

I find that kind of silly. I see no reason not to like stuff that's popular. Yeah, it's sometimes fun to like things no one else likes, but you don't have to put down the stuff that everyone else does like.

So I think I'm just going to stick with my "Hey There Delilah" (which is, in fact, an awful song, but for some reason I like it, so leave me alone) and both of the Fantastic 4 movies (neither of which in any way resemble a "particularly odious fart," thank you very much), and you can stop laughing at me, because I'm cool, no matter what you say.

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Kumars Salehi's picture

I love being quoted.

I love being quoted.

P.S.
Fantastic Four really did suck. In virtually every way possible. In fact, I think it may even have discovered NEW ways to suck.

Lauren Piester's picture

That's your own opinion,

That's your own opinion, Kumars. I personally found both of those movies very entertaining.

Erin Hayes's picture

I think this is hilarious.

I think this is hilarious. Just because people like things that are outside the mainstream rarely means that they like them simply because they're outside the mainstream. It's like what Kumars was talking about in his comments on the "Base Bull" blog entry: the American people have come to enjoy really in-your-face, simple entertainment that lacks a lot of nuance (and in this case, artistry), so it all really depends what you're looking for. Generally speaking, you have to look outside the mainstream, which is marketed to those Americans who enjoy being spoonfed, if you want artistry and nuance (not that it isn't possible to fall off the other side of the horse, like the people I think you're visualizing).

It's not like people aren't allowed to have guilty pleasures. I know I do. But if you really are content limiting yourself to movies that are just "flashy" and "cheesy," or not making the effort to hear an artist out and listen to a full album, I think that's... well... really limiting. I mean, suit yourself. I don't think it makes you uncool, I just feel a little sorry for you.

But what about pretention?

I think that the problem that Lauren is talking about is the issue of people being really pretentious and stuck up about their music tastes just because they like artists who are out of the mainstream. And, as a result, hating on the people who only listen to stuff that gets played on the radio. In the end, what people need to realize, is neither one is bad. It all depends on what you want to do. I'll admit that I turn on the radio and jam to "Hey There Delilah," just like Lauren. If you don't like it, fine. We disagree on this particular song. But that doesn't make one of us less cool or less sophisticated. There should be no such thing as a guilty pleasure. If you enjoy a movie or a song, you shouldn't have to feel guilty about it, even if you do realize that it might not be as good as the other stuff you listen to. If there is something about the song that speaks to you, don't fight it because it's #1 on the charts.

There is a lot of bragging that goes on in Uni. "Oh, have you heard of TV on the Radio? No? Man you are really missing out. I totally knew about them before anyone else, and their album is one of the best of 2006. I can't believe you don't know about them." This is a dumb way to a) show off your "cool," "exotic" music tastes and b) judge the other person and make them feel less cool for not knowing about the band.

There is also the whole "Once they became famous and started getting played on the radio, I stoppped listening to them" bulljive. That truly is a stuck up way to look at music. What does it matter if the band is well-known, as long as they still make music that you like.

The whole situation is ridiculous. And, if you deny that people judge others based on music/movie tastes then you are not paying attention, or you are too busy being on of those pretentious frequenters of the Art theatre who bashes on anyone who listens to 50 Cent. Listen to what you want. Watch what you want. But don't feel proud of yourself and think you are better than everyone else because you have eclectic, indie taste.

Lauren Piester's picture

thank you sarah!

you are exactly right. that's what i was getting at. music should just be music. it doesn't matter how many people like it or how many grammys it wins or how many people have even heard of it. if you like it, then you should listen to it.

thank you for helping me make my point and being unbiased.

Kumars Salehi's picture

Sort of.

I agree that forsaking an artist or film because it has become popular is absurd, and also that people do indeed judge others based on their taste in films and music.

I am not opposed to mainstream music and cinema. I totally agree that if a song is #1 on the charts and really merits praise for its artistry, you have every claim to embrace it and its quality. I'm opposed to BAD music and cinema, be it mainstream or independent. As much as some would like to push this idea of total relativism in art, cinema and music are exactly that - art. And art can be done well or it can be done poorly. There are objective standards by which films can be judged, regardless of taste. Elements of film like cinematography, dialogue, continuity, character development, thematic nuance, and others are components which can be done well in many different ways relative to the film as a whole, but they can also be done poorly and ineffectively. The same, though I admit, to a lesser degree, is true of music. The ability to recognize and appreciate subtlety/nuance, complexity and beauty is definitely grounds for judging a person. It is, after all, a reflection of that person's worldview, if only as an independent component of that perspective. I consider perspective about the world legitimate grounds for judgment of a person. Unless, of course, you subscribe to total relativism and multi-culturalism, in which case it really doesn't matter what I say here, and someone could legitimately tell me that a recording of a fart is a work of art equal in worth to "The Thin Red Line."

It just so happens that in this particular era and society, a majority of the films and music which the common folk champion, i.e. "300" or Yung Joc, is of an in-your-face, spelled-out, contrived aesthetic that is incompatible with the complexity and nuance of art. In the 1970's, intelligent works of art such as "The Godfather" and "The Deer Hunter" were popular, well-known, and, indeed, of the mainstream. In the early 1990's, intelligent, artistically-minded, aesthetically conscious rappers like the Wu-Tang Clan and Nas were, like the aforementioned films, popular, well-known, and mainstream. They were insanely popular; this is not debatable. The qualities that those who are not "posers" and truly appreciate art recognized in "The Godfather" and Nasir Jones are now generally absent in the mainstream and more dominant in the independent scene. It is likely, even inevitable, that these artistic values will be reversed in the forseeable future.

Anyway, what we could be encountering here, and in contemporary American society, is a disconnect between the concepts of entertainment and quality. Many things entertain me. Some are inappropriate and should not be mentioned here. Others are films, and music. But whether or not I "have fun" or am "entertained" does NOT assign a degree of artistry or quality reflective of the artist's talent/creativity/effort. Or else, one could posit that a film is bad because one did not enjoy it while sober, but then, once one watches it while under the influence of drugs, the film entertains them and is therefore "good" or contains artistic merit.

I'm with Pfandy on this one.

I'm with Pfandy on this one.

Plus she used the word "bulljive" so she pretty much owns everyone at everything.

Erin Hayes's picture

These things matter.

Amen to Kumars. That was the idea I was getting at, but he took more time to write it out and explain it further.

And Sarah, I would never deny that people judge others based on their taste in movies or music. We all judge people in many ways-- NO ONE is above that or beyond that. It would be ignorant and silly to argue otherwise. However, in my opinion, people's tastes in the arts are one of the best means by which to judge them. As Kumars said, people's tastes say a lot about them and how they relate to the world. Tastes are a good indicator of personality and worldview. In light of that, since no human beings can escape judging other humans (and being judged), I'd say that evaluating taste in movies/music is a perfectly valid, if not excellent way to do so. I judge people based on their tastes every day, and will staunchly defend that.


"I agreed that what really matters is what you like, not what you are like. Books, records, films-- these things matter. Call me shallow, but it's the damn truth."- Rob Gordon, High Fidelity

David Porreca's picture

"High Fidelity"

Hat tip to Erin for quoting "High Fidelity" — an excellent movie and an even better novel. All aspiring critics should read Nick Hornby's masterpiece. The movie soundtrack is pretty good, too.

Sindha Agha's picture

Oh man... Erin quoted Rob!

Oh man... Erin quoted Rob! My favorite fictional idol.
That's unbeatable.

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