You raise a really good point. When I first began writing this guide, I thought that guys usually did the asking. However, in recent days, I have noticed a surprisingly large number of girls who have asked guys to prom. I find this really refreshing and I’m glad that girls now have the courage to do the asking.
However, I guess I still have some traditional gender stereotypes etched in my mind. Just like how in a relationship, it is usually the man who proposes, I think the social dynamic is kind of the same when it comes to prom.
And of course, it’s definitely okay not to go with a date. Many people feel pressured to find a date, and another column would be needed to address this social issue. Going to prom with a group of friends can be just as much fun as going as a couple. Nevertheless, from an economic standpoint, it’s beneficial to go with someone (even if he or she is just a friend) because sharing a couple’s ticket is a lot cheaper than buying a single ticket.
Mr. Rayburn, You raise a
Mr. Rayburn,
You raise a really good point. When I first began writing this guide, I thought that guys usually did the asking. However, in recent days, I have noticed a surprisingly large number of girls who have asked guys to prom. I find this really refreshing and I’m glad that girls now have the courage to do the asking.
However, I guess I still have some traditional gender stereotypes etched in my mind. Just like how in a relationship, it is usually the man who proposes, I think the social dynamic is kind of the same when it comes to prom.
And of course, it’s definitely okay not to go with a date. Many people feel pressured to find a date, and another column would be needed to address this social issue. Going to prom with a group of friends can be just as much fun as going as a couple. Nevertheless, from an economic standpoint, it’s beneficial to go with someone (even if he or she is just a friend) because sharing a couple’s ticket is a lot cheaper than buying a single ticket.
- Elaine